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In The Naturist World Communication Is Demanding! Especially with Vita Nuda Northeast (VNNE)!
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Conveying with Vita Nuda North East in the Fkk World Is Not Simple!
Naturist World - Doing something great for others and the purposes behind these voluntary actions is a issue that's come up. It's a topic I think, at minimum, merits a discussion. Individuals generally are egoistic creatures, which is why the debate continues as to whether or not there's such a thing as a "selfless good deed."
Unfortunately I keep finding out that in the nudie world there appears to be an overwhelming amount of people for whom their ego is the chief source behind their actions. So with that in mind let us get to talking You all understand what we (FKK & Ranger World) went through to set up and promote our Nude Years Eve celebration.
Hours and hours of e-mailing, posting, press releases, contacting patrons (for our naked charity initiative), reviewing every single request that we got to try and weed out the odd balls (pardon the pun) and not to mention the money that went into setting everything together.
There isn't https://transtats.bts.gov/exit.asp?url=https://nudistas.xyz that we reached out to as many individuals and organizations as we physically could. We knew that no matter what we would likely wind up losing money, but for us that was much less important than bringing folks together and observing our way of life only to have it all come crashing down a few hours before the event was assumed to begin.
Vita Naked North East's Negativity In The Naturist World
As soon as we found out, our number one concern was to inform as many people as we possibly could. Hotel bookings would need to be canceled, and people who were coming from far away needed to know to make other arrangements. The organizers, who fronted up all the money, needed to prepare for whatever lay ahead and try to think of an alternative plan.
Calls were made to everyone we could think about to try and find an alternate place. After talking with whoever owns the venue we were given his phone number and took it from there.
A place being procured, we started scrambling.
To show our appreciation to the Vita Nuda folks who helped locate a place, we posted a public thank you, quit the celebration sooner or later to declare how appreciative we were for their help and even allowed them to hang up their Vita nuda flag - even though it was by no means their occasion. Essentially they helped find a site by making some phone calls and passing on the info to us.
After the party, we posted a website thanking all the sponsors for their generosity and to all those who took an active role over the past few weeks. What happened next came as a bit of a surprise - even to me! The site was posted by Vita Nuda Northeast VNNE, in a facebook group, with a comment that read:
* aZ"but miraculously we managed to put a new party together in three hours in Long Island City!"
* Not such a Miracle but instead the use of your available resources, Vita Nuda
** The first part is a quote from the blog while the second part is the comment from Vita Nuda.
This brings up an interesting question should we've recorded every single man that helped us put the event together? The claim that we used invaluable resources is a little reach don't get me wrong, we were all happy that a venue was found but at the end of the day, but wasn't a public online "thank you" enough?
https://weblib.lib.umt.edu/redirect/proxyselect.php?url=https://nudism1.xyz in this world, people do things that might have a positive impact. The reason I say this is straightforward - it feels more like a set up than a good action. The repercussions of such actions hark back to for a long time after everything has been said and done. Would I presume right that if someone helps somebody outside, only to throw it back in their faces, it ends up tearing people apart rather than bringing them together?
Fkk Communication Issues
We at Young Naturists & Young Nudists America help individuals as well as organizations practically every other day. Most of which will never make it to the public domain due to this very reason. If I determined to help someone it's because that is what I feel is the right thing to do. If that individual decides to return the favor then it's completely up to them. Doing something with ulterior self serving motives has a tendency of breeding negativity as is the situation here. Simply have a look at the two replies the post got and judge for yourself.
Another dilemma that keeps surfacing is the inability of individuals to be direct. Appointment that comment freely induced my hand and generated this public response. Whereas a private e-mail would have most probably resulted in an update to the original post. Why post a spiteful and public reply when all that was wanted was an email along the lines of: "Hey I read your post about the event and was a little worried to see you didn't mention me. Was it an oversight on your own part? I believe it is only fair, so would you mind updating it? Or at least giving me an explanation concerning why you did not mention me?"
So in close
1 - What are your ideas about doing something simply for the benefit of helping others?
2 - What can be done to get folks to comprehend the benefits of direct and open communication and the devastating repercussions of passive aggressive or negative public places?
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Category: Cyber Bullying, Communication and Bullies, Nudist Organizations, Social Activism, Social Nudity Blogs
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Jordan Blum is a lifelong nudie and cofounder of Nudist Portal.
Naturist World - Doing something great for others and the purposes behind these voluntary actions is a issue that's come up. It's a topic I think, at minimum, merits a discussion. Individuals generally are egoistic creatures, which is why the debate continues as to whether or not there's such a thing as a "selfless good deed."
Unfortunately I keep finding out that in the nudie world there appears to be an overwhelming amount of people for whom their ego is the chief source behind their actions. So with that in mind let us get to talking You all understand what we (FKK & Ranger World) went through to set up and promote our Nude Years Eve celebration.
Hours and hours of e-mailing, posting, press releases, contacting patrons (for our naked charity initiative), reviewing every single request that we got to try and weed out the odd balls (pardon the pun) and not to mention the money that went into setting everything together.
There isn't https://transtats.bts.gov/exit.asp?url=https://nudistas.xyz that we reached out to as many individuals and organizations as we physically could. We knew that no matter what we would likely wind up losing money, but for us that was much less important than bringing folks together and observing our way of life only to have it all come crashing down a few hours before the event was assumed to begin.
Vita Naked North East's Negativity In The Naturist World
As soon as we found out, our number one concern was to inform as many people as we possibly could. Hotel bookings would need to be canceled, and people who were coming from far away needed to know to make other arrangements. The organizers, who fronted up all the money, needed to prepare for whatever lay ahead and try to think of an alternative plan.
Calls were made to everyone we could think about to try and find an alternate place. After talking with whoever owns the venue we were given his phone number and took it from there.
A place being procured, we started scrambling.
To show our appreciation to the Vita Nuda folks who helped locate a place, we posted a public thank you, quit the celebration sooner or later to declare how appreciative we were for their help and even allowed them to hang up their Vita nuda flag - even though it was by no means their occasion. Essentially they helped find a site by making some phone calls and passing on the info to us.
After the party, we posted a website thanking all the sponsors for their generosity and to all those who took an active role over the past few weeks. What happened next came as a bit of a surprise - even to me! The site was posted by Vita Nuda Northeast VNNE, in a facebook group, with a comment that read:
* aZ"but miraculously we managed to put a new party together in three hours in Long Island City!"
* Not such a Miracle but instead the use of your available resources, Vita Nuda
** The first part is a quote from the blog while the second part is the comment from Vita Nuda.
This brings up an interesting question should we've recorded every single man that helped us put the event together? The claim that we used invaluable resources is a little reach don't get me wrong, we were all happy that a venue was found but at the end of the day, but wasn't a public online "thank you" enough?
https://weblib.lib.umt.edu/redirect/proxyselect.php?url=https://nudism1.xyz in this world, people do things that might have a positive impact. The reason I say this is straightforward - it feels more like a set up than a good action. The repercussions of such actions hark back to for a long time after everything has been said and done. Would I presume right that if someone helps somebody outside, only to throw it back in their faces, it ends up tearing people apart rather than bringing them together?
Fkk Communication Issues
We at Young Naturists & Young Nudists America help individuals as well as organizations practically every other day. Most of which will never make it to the public domain due to this very reason. If I determined to help someone it's because that is what I feel is the right thing to do. If that individual decides to return the favor then it's completely up to them. Doing something with ulterior self serving motives has a tendency of breeding negativity as is the situation here. Simply have a look at the two replies the post got and judge for yourself.
Another dilemma that keeps surfacing is the inability of individuals to be direct. Appointment that comment freely induced my hand and generated this public response. Whereas a private e-mail would have most probably resulted in an update to the original post. Why post a spiteful and public reply when all that was wanted was an email along the lines of: "Hey I read your post about the event and was a little worried to see you didn't mention me. Was it an oversight on your own part? I believe it is only fair, so would you mind updating it? Or at least giving me an explanation concerning why you did not mention me?"
So in close
1 - What are your ideas about doing something simply for the benefit of helping others?
2 - What can be done to get folks to comprehend the benefits of direct and open communication and the devastating repercussions of passive aggressive or negative public places?
follow : organizations, young nudists and naturists
Category: Cyber Bullying, Communication and Bullies, Nudist Organizations, Social Activism, Social Nudity Blogs
About the Author (Author Profile)
Jordan Blum is a lifelong nudie and cofounder of Nudist Portal.
