I had a call the other day and they proclaimed to be well known. Which instantly I responded by saying "so was I as an ex-bartender in the area and know more people than I really care to". I was just teasing but telling the truth. But, as the conversation proceeded and I requested my usual verification. He stated that my request was "not he style", also a supposebly newbie. My rules and requests were made for a reason and there is no reason for exceptions in my mind. Afterward, I thought to myself that he was just trying to play some silly game trying to get by my screening process. I've met and seen well known people in my life and bragging that they are famous or well known is not in their demeanor nor is it something they care to bring attention to. I've cut-off people that were well known as a bartender without hesitation just as I would anyone. There aren't NO EXCEPTIONS to my rules or how I treat someone!! Infact, stating so would probably get you the opposite reaction you'd expect from me. Anyway I live in LA everyone thinks their somebody their not. Acting like a bigshot is not recommended for trying to be an exception in my world at least. People are people and I treat people like I would want to be treated and I was raised to be as a person.
I've been wanting to travel a few places for awhile but had delays at home that kept me from being able to. I had a good feeling about the advantages of traveling but also not sure about the disadvantages that I should keep in mind. Chicago is first on my list and wondered if anyone had some good tips on where to stay as far as area and maybe some suggestions on accommidations I would enjoy staying at during my visit.
nairobi tamu don't drive by choice anymore so would like to be in a location that is close to many things I would like to see while there. I love food and shoes of course and have never been to Chicago although I grew up in the midwest. I get along really well with people from Chicago and can't wait to visit but would appreciate any tips or suggestions I should keep in mind when I book my trip.
Taking a Poll, could I be TOO Cautious?
I have had a few things on my mind and figured I should take a poll and research options I might want to consider when screening. I'm pretty darn sure I am more than too cautious when screening but is there really such a thing? Of course I have all the good reasons why I stick to such a strict way of screening and know everyone has their own way of screening, but am I overdoing? I feel like Ms. PI most of the time and spend ALOT of precious time verifying. I'm sure there have been times I've spent a good hour checking someone out, and they might not even show for all I know. I'm way to busy to ever call anyone back unless I'm asked to even if they flake on an appointment (if their concern is someone being a pest) but I also see their side of things. I won't make an appointment through just a cell phone call alone. I want a name to go with the number and be able to search to confirm an identity. I have other options for people but I'm inquiring about cell phone screening. How do you feel the most comfortable screening?
THANK YOU for reading and any input, advice or suggestions!!