'Made in....Earth' - Rami Beracha
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This is the blog of Rami Beracha, a venture capitalist from the world. Rami is also Co-Founder at Sosa.
The issue of miscommunication is very serious. It's a minefield we created. It begins moments after the first contact and culminates in an amazing explosion...
The biggest mistake we make is that we assume total agreement in our expectations, without ever trying to understand the expectations of our partner. One thing we can be sure of however: our partner doesn't miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . There's no one to tell us about the upcoming clash.
רמי ברכה
There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunication. The majority of them are caused by personality differences. Square people are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal individuals, and people who are aggressive might have trouble in coordinating their expectations with those of passive personalities. This is easy to recognize - everyone knows that they are squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.
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What if they were very different? Imagine that there exists a sort of a personality gap which exists but that we are not aware of. It has never been discovered or warned about it, nor investigated it. !
Rami Beracha
Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all share: the FULL CIRCLE personalities as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Note: This study provides guidelines for behavior. Find out the personality that best defines what you're like and then discover the person who is your partner. If you realize that you're of two different kinds that you can be happy. This could be the cause of some of your differences. If you're not the type you're looking for I'm sorry to not assist you in understanding why your relationships appear like a mess.
Rami Beracha
Here we are...
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Two distinct groups of people are referred to as human. Certain of us are divided into two categories one of which is self-contained while others feel completely at ease in their own space. He does want to be a part of a group and sure, he's always on the lookout for someone to share his life with. Absolutely! It's true! ... However, he cannot survive without his dream companion until he can find one. When he finds the right person and has found the right one, he'll be able to continue your life with a full circle of friends.
The "half of a circle" individuals on the opposite side are those who need an accomplice. They will not let go after they've found their miserable companion. They'll work to physically join their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves don't want to compromise on anything less than staring one at the other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with one another and form one whole.
A striking distinction between these types is the decision to let go a partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion with whom they have lost his chemistry quickly. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the meaning of chemistry between two people to mean - "I am holding on to this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with a new upgrade."
Imagine the incredible dance between the "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. However, by the fact that he took the Half out of his comfort zone .... the Half is certain that the Full was making an innocent wrong move and take a step to make up for it with a step forward, the Full starts to get angry and take a further, more significant step in the opposite direction.. the Half starts to think that there is something sinister about what is going on in this situation and his next step is not at all gentle.. the Full.. The Half.. The Half and the Full are pissed of off one another. The Full and the Half know why but lack proper terminology. They can't properly explain their frustration, and so they search for the wrong things. They could have saved their own lives knowing that one is Half and the other one is Full.
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
רמי ברכה
1. Find out who you really are.
Rami Beracha
2. Find out who your real partner is
3. Realize there is a difference.
רמי ברכה
3. Respect differences!
One conclusion is: Live and let the life flow.
The issue of miscommunication is very serious. It's a minefield we created. It begins moments after the first contact and culminates in an amazing explosion...
The biggest mistake we make is that we assume total agreement in our expectations, without ever trying to understand the expectations of our partner. One thing we can be sure of however: our partner doesn't miss any opportunity to increase this expectation gap . There's no one to tell us about the upcoming clash.
רמי ברכה
There are a variety of possible causes of miscommunication. The majority of them are caused by personality differences. Square people are more likely to communicate in a misguided manner than liberal individuals, and people who are aggressive might have trouble in coordinating their expectations with those of passive personalities. This is easy to recognize - everyone knows that they are squared from liberal and passive from aggressive.
https://www.cpas.co.il/account_rnah/רמי-ברכה/
What if they were very different? Imagine that there exists a sort of a personality gap which exists but that we are not aware of. It has never been discovered or warned about it, nor investigated it. !
Rami Beracha
Let me introduce you ladies and gentlemen, to the new type of personality that we all share: the FULL CIRCLE personalities as opposed to the HALF-CIRCLE people. !
Note: This study provides guidelines for behavior. Find out the personality that best defines what you're like and then discover the person who is your partner. If you realize that you're of two different kinds that you can be happy. This could be the cause of some of your differences. If you're not the type you're looking for I'm sorry to not assist you in understanding why your relationships appear like a mess.
Rami Beracha
Here we are...
https://radio4000.com/ramiberacha/favorites
Two distinct groups of people are referred to as human. Certain of us are divided into two categories one of which is self-contained while others feel completely at ease in their own space. He does want to be a part of a group and sure, he's always on the lookout for someone to share his life with. Absolutely! It's true! ... However, he cannot survive without his dream companion until he can find one. When he finds the right person and has found the right one, he'll be able to continue your life with a full circle of friends.
The "half of a circle" individuals on the opposite side are those who need an accomplice. They will not let go after they've found their miserable companion. They'll work to physically join their victim to create one happy circle. The Halves don't want to compromise on anything less than staring one at the other from a zero distance for the rest of their lives. Anything less intimate will give them the desire to connect with one another and form one whole.
A striking distinction between these types is the decision to let go a partner. The whole circle will typically be the first to let go of a companion with whom they have lost his chemistry quickly. On the other hand, half-circle types redefine the meaning of chemistry between two people to mean - "I am holding on to this B..ST..RD. until I can replace him with a new upgrade."
Imagine the incredible dance between the "half-a circle" and the full circle. So he fixes this zone-invasion-problem by making a gentle step backward. However, by the fact that he took the Half out of his comfort zone .... the Half is certain that the Full was making an innocent wrong move and take a step to make up for it with a step forward, the Full starts to get angry and take a further, more significant step in the opposite direction.. the Half starts to think that there is something sinister about what is going on in this situation and his next step is not at all gentle.. the Full.. The Half.. The Half and the Full are pissed of off one another. The Full and the Half know why but lack proper terminology. They can't properly explain their frustration, and so they search for the wrong things. They could have saved their own lives knowing that one is Half and the other one is Full.
There isn't a single conclusion to this essay but there are some action items:
רמי ברכה
1. Find out who you really are.
Rami Beracha
2. Find out who your real partner is
3. Realize there is a difference.
רמי ברכה
3. Respect differences!
One conclusion is: Live and let the life flow.
