Tips To Select An Inscription For Your Headstone

The choice of words for a headstone or memorial is a difficult and even stressful process. I have worked on headstones for nearly 10 years, and I would like to share some thoughts to help you select the right wording.

1.Keep it simple

A smaller inscription will always have more impact than an inscription that is longer. While you might have a lot of items you would like to place on your headstone, it is always wise to inquire if you really need so much detail on the stone.

It's not mandatory to include all dates or names, however in certain situations, the first name could have more impact.

Make sure to keep it simple, and the overall look and feel of the stone will be better.

2. Avoid copying other people

If you browse through monumental masons' websites there are always templates to pick from. If you can, steer clear of these and go with your heart. Make your own choices and stay clear of trending topics. For example there is a trend at the moment to start a stone by saying "in loving memory" like in the past it may be "here lies". Ask yourself if you really would like or need to begin the inscription with these words.

3. It goes beyond the words

Remember that a headstone is not just about the words. Consider the letterforms, design, shape, and possibly a reverse carving. For example you might consider other senses like touch, and then commission a headstone that is rounded to the touch or maybe a gilded sunken bowl that symbolizes eternity.

4.The material you select will determine the type of inscription

Different headstone materials require different letters. This will impact the length of your inscription. For limestone headstones, for example, requires bold, large letters. Thus, the inscription will be less. A slate headstone would require lots of tiny italic lettersand longer inscription.

It is important to determine what is most important, the material or the inscription and then work from there.

5. The epitaph

Although you may not choose an epitaph for your grave, there are many options. It can be put in the back or on the side of the stone. It could have circular or circular in shape or even be a circular shape that runs around the edges. It doesn't need to be in front. Utilizing the reverse of the stone will allow for a longer epitaph without cluttering up the front.

6. Be patient and take your time

Don't rush to choose headstones. I always advise taking at least a year before even thinking about the inscription.

If your grief is painful and raw, the words you select may not be appropriate. And, in the years to come, you might regret the choice you made. By letting it go for a year, you allow emotions to settle and give you time to consider what is important to you.

Do not be pressured to place a headstone on your grave. Waiting is not a crime. In Grave Maintenance will be amazed by how thoughtful and beautiful the headstone you chose and appreciate why you put off the process for so long. People often feel ashamed and feel pressured to put the marker on a grave that is only temporary. Remember that you are the one who loved them and only you can decide when it is suitable.

7.Look for an inspiration

There are countless pictures on the web of beautiful headstones to inspire you, and looking around churchyards can help.

Don't buy the first mason you come across. Check out the different designs of stone carvers and choose the one that speaks to you. It is important to find someone to help you and collaborate with you.