Men love sex and romance. Period.
Wow, there's an eye-opener. Who knew?
And you know what? Kids love candy. What? Really?
Candy is the temptation that rots many kids' teeth if not enjoyed in moderation. "Eye candy" is a man's temptation that if not moderated properly could propel his desire to fulfill his "sweet tooth" to uncontrollable levels.
I am a man. Make no mistake ladies. I love looking at beautiful women- that's putting it lightly, but just like I realize too much sugar and sweets could lead to flabby stomachs and cavities I understand darn well that a lust for sex and romance could lead to a rotten brain and potentially a broken relationship.
Marriage and relationships are hard to maintain and nurture, but can rekindling romance move things in the right direction?
Ladies what am I getting at?
Scarlett Johansson vs the Soccer Mom
OMG Scarlett is a goddess! If I could look at a picture of her every day I would never get tired of it, but red, puckered lips, luscious legs, sparkly blue eyes and perky breasts are not going to cure my everyday need for companionship and security from loneliness. I believe every husband needs the soccer mom. No disrespect Scarlett, I'm sure you are a great woman too.
Stated simply: I like "candy", but I need fruit and vegetables.
Has your man ever pressured or at a minimum brought up the conversation of rekindling romance in your relationship by doing any of the following favors for him?
5 Sex and Romance Wife Traps: Do not fall for the bait.
1. "Honey, act more ladylike."
- Walk more like a lady.
- Talk more like a lady.
Scarlett walks with grace. Scarlett whispers her words. She does not shout or raise her voice. She is a cool summer breeze, sliding down the avenue.
Ladies do you really want to stop and think about how to say things differently or choose what pace of stride is appropriate when walking in the mall with your man?
2. "Dress sexier for me."
- High heels.
- Summer skirt.
- Perky bra.
My heart drops every time my eyes gaze at Scarlett in boots or high heels. Thump, thump, my heart is a prisoner.
For all you wives out there. Do you really want to redo or best asian escort service in manhattan serious additions to your wardrobe?
3. "Lose weight, work out."
- Perky breasts.
- Curvaceous hips.
- Thin arms.
- Proportioned legs.
Ah, those long sexy legs. There is a scene at the beginning of the movie, "Lost in Translation" where Scarlett is lying in bed and the camera scans those delicious legs of hers. Maybe they are naturally yummy or perhaps she works out.
But how many wives actually have the time, energy and strength to maintain the diet and routine to achieve that?
4."Flirt a little please."
- Talk dirty in my ear.
- Provocative romantic letters.
- Quick, hidden butt grabs in public.
Her giggle and diamond blue eyes pierce my heart as my jaw-dropped head tries to look away from the screen. Ah, Scarlett you sure have a way with me.
If you are in the mood great, but who can keep up a regimen of sexting and a horny vernacular to tease him on phone conversations during his lunch breaks from work?
5. "Make passionate love to me more often."
- Magical hands.
- Teasing tongue games.
- A thousand different positions.
The thought of Scarlett's character from her Marvel character Natasha Romanoff ever making love on screen is enough to drive any man's libido out of control.
Are you a wife or a call girl? Do you really want the pressure of being ready whenever he slips into the mood?
Candy tastes good. I love a box of Sour Patch Kids during a movie, but regardless how much I want to devour the tangy, sweet treat, it's not meant to be something I divulge in every day.
If your man feels like there is something missing in a relationship then sex and romance is not the answer. Rekindling a relationship is only the spark, but it is not the burning fire that will keep a marriage warm for any sustained length of time.
